As I drive to work I often cogitate about the landmarks I pass. My commute is 38 miles each way. It's about 7 miles from the farm to the freeway, 25-odd miles on the freeway, and about 5 miles from the freeway to work. There are several routes I take to and from the freeway, but one that I use most of the time and places along that route that I look for each day.
On Tuesdays I work the evening shift, which means I come through Faribault 9:15-9:30 p.m. - in the dark except about 6 weeks in mid-summer. Quite a few years ago now, there was a house on my path where a group of musicians would be playing or practicing in the front window every Tuesday night. It was fun to check for them and guess what piece they might be playing. When they stopped appearing in that window on Tuesday nights, I missed them, with an odd sense of loss, for a long time. I didn't and don't know the family living in that house, but it felt warm and welcoming to see the group playing their instruments as I passed by.
Another house on my usual path was home to an older couple. I would often see the woman of the couple out walking in the morning, or occasionally mowing the lawn. In the late afternoons and Tuesday nights, the television would be on, visible from the big living room picture window where the drapes were rarely pulled. I rarely saw the man of the couple, except a fleeting glimpse of someone sitting in a chair watching TV. About December 1st each year, a Christmas tree still goes up, and January 1st it comes down. For more than 2 years now the television has been dark most afternoons and evenings; sporadically at first but always over the past year or two. Until this past summer I still occasionally saw the woman in the yard or walking, but no man in the chair watching television. On weekends now different cars appear in the driveway. I assume the man died, his wife is still living in their longtime home, and children/grandchildren are taking turns coming to help out and visit on weekends. I expect the next big change will be seeing a 'for sale' sign go up.
